Foster Adoption Blog

06/07/06

Disciplining: Open the Yogurt!

Posted by : Michelle Vandepas in Foster Adoption Blog at 10:42 pm , 233 words, 120 views  
Categories: Parenting
So this morning Ricky wakes up in a bad mood - as always.. But I wake up in a good mood (and as the day goes on his mood get better and mine gets worse, but I digress..)

He wanted one of those tube yogurt things that I never buy, but had in the house because it is one of the few things he’ll actually eat. So I passed him one and he screamed OPEN IT OPEN IT... and then threw it at me.

I was still in a good mood, - after all it was only seven in the morning, and at that point not at all detered by his anger and frustration at life, so I said “Sure - Follow me.”

I picked up K (our two year old daughter), and went out to the driveway. I asked Ricky to put the yogurt down right here, and pointed.

Continuing, using great care and emphasis, I said, Exactly right there, just perfectly, yep thats it. Ok great. I surveyed the scene and Ricky watched - amazed.

Ok, Ricky, go stand over there where I can see you.

Ricky went, watching me carefully, his mood changing, was that possibly a glimpse of a smile under his frown?

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Then I put K in the car seat and backed up over the yogurt.

Its open! I exclaimed!

Boy do I have fun parenting sometimes.

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Comment from: Nancy Spoolstra [Member] Email · http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/
Oh my oh my oh my, I am ROFL!! Read this to my husband! This was PRICELESS!!!! You GO girl!
PermalinkPermalink 06/07/06 @ 23:13
Comment from: Adrienne Bashista [Member] Email · http://russia.adoptionblogs.com/
That is TOO funny. You are so creative with discipline problems. Maybe if I were more creative we would have more fun around here.
I read this to my older son and he laughed and laughed...
PermalinkPermalink 06/08/06 @ 04:20
Comment from: Julie [Member] Email · http://special-needs.adoptionblogs.com/
Michelle - GRIN! What was Ricky's reaction? Did he "get it"?
PermalinkPermalink 06/08/06 @ 06:35
Comment from: Michelle Vandepas [Member] Email · http://fost-adopt.adoptionblogs.com/
he he, Yea Ricky is a good kid at heart. This wouldn't have worked for every child, but he starts smiling as soon as I get 'creative' and it disapates the anger energy. We started all over again with a new yogurt and he was able to open it himself! (but was ready to ask nicely for help)...
for those interested, this type of parenting is my take on Love and Logic, and Nancy Thomas (Love is not enough and other books and videos)
PermalinkPermalink 06/08/06 @ 22:19
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