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10/17/06

Not eating dinner - what to do? Tips and Tricks

Posted by : Michelle Vandepas in Foster Adoption Blog at 08:25 am , 326 words, 134 views  
Categories: Parenting Toddlers
A day or two ago I posted a comment somewhere about never making my darling wonderful sweet innocent little two year old K a separate meal than the one Hubby and I eat.

I went so far as to actually condemn, judge, express disapproval to those who do.

Then guess what?

It’s just like Murphy Law or the Universe giving me a kick in the butt, K wouldn’t eat and demanded a different meal last night.

She screamed and cried and wouldn’t eat the pizza I made, (normally her favorite).

I know she was overtired, and hungry.

The dilemma?

If she didn’t eat, she’d wake up in the middle of the night hungry and tired and crying and she’d wake up the whole household and demand food and who wants that drama at three am?

I know what I’m talking about here. Been there done that.

I’m happy to report I didn’t make her a separate dinner,

But I did allow her to eat an avocado and a yogurt for dinner. She also ate 2 bits of pizza.

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The good news?

She slept through the night. No hunger pains.

Yea.


If your child won't eat, here's my advice (It doesn't actually work for me, but those in the know tell me it is good advice).


  • Make your child’s favorite food and then add something else to the meal you want them to eat. I gave K acavado and yogurt with her pizza. It worked, sort of





  • Don’t make them finish everything or force them to clean their plate. Don’t make a big deal of new foods. If you put the food on the plate enough times they will eventually try it.





  • Cook fresh foods - even if they only eat a little bit, it will be nutritious for them.




  • Have healthy snacks available for when your child IS ready to eat.



More ideas?

Comment below!







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Comment from: Adrienne Bashista [Member] Email · http://russia.adoptionblogs.com/
I know this sounds really indulgent, but my kids will eat when I feed them like they're babies.
I certainly don't do this every night, nor do I do it if he's tantruming, etc., but I have been known to fork up a few mouthfuls of the more nutritious offerings and feed Little J if he's highly distracted or excited or isn't eating because there's too much else to do. If he's not hungry I don't force it, but usually it's because a lot is going on...plus sometimes I think small children like to be babied a bit...
PermalinkPermalink 10/17/06 @ 09:20
Comment from: Mo [Member] Email · http://korea.adoptionblogs.com/
What a relief that I'm not alone. Though it isn't often, I sometimes feed my son his dinner. I'm not sure why he likes it, but it gets food into his stomach.

We've discovered that my son is not always hungry at dinner, but will be shortly after. We either leave his dinner on the table (if it won't go bad) or we put it in the refrigerator. When he says he's hungry, we present him with his dinner plate. When that's all that's offered, he'll usually eat it all by the end of the evening. I agree with Michelle. I never force him to eat it. If he eats it, he eats it. I always try to remember that his stomach is much smaller than mine. :)

I also live by the philosophy that all children should be allowed a few things that they won't eat. I hate mushrooms so I was given a pass on mushrooms when I was growing up. My son has two dishes that we make that he hates - he gets a pass on those, but nothing else.
PermalinkPermalink 10/17/06 @ 10:14
Comment from: Adrienne Bashista [Member] Email · http://russia.adoptionblogs.com/
Ha - my older son cries if he is given chili with beans. Beans make him cry! So do potatoes (except for a tater tot, which is pretty far from a real potato, IMHO). So he doesn't have to eat those, but everything else. It's a texture thing, I think. My younger son eats pretty much everything...
PermalinkPermalink 10/17/06 @ 11:22
Comment from: Michelle Vandepas [Member] Email · http://fost-adopt.adoptionblogs.com/
I love the comments about feeing your child like a baby. I also do that and it always works - unless she's just cranky!

Good advice thanks
PermalinkPermalink 10/17/06 @ 11:45
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