Foster Adoption Blog

03/29/06

No meat = no kid!

Posted by : Michelle Vandepas in Foster Adoption Blog at 11:25 am , 351 words, 105 views  
Categories: In the News!
Really? Yep! A couple hoping to adopt, was denied the opportunity to become foster parents. The couple in their 40's were hoping to foster or adopt a child so their ten-year-old son would have a sibling. But, get this, The couple in the UK was denied the ability to become foster parents because they didn't eat meat - they are vegetarians.

Here we are discussing important weighty issues like gay adoption, single family adoption, children languishing in foster care, and now this. I can picture the headline now :

No child for meatless home - Couple told to slaughter cow before being able to parent addicted abused child.


Ok, maybe I”m dramatizing a bit, but really, does this make sense?

Although they readily agreed to allow their foster child to eat meat outside the home, at school and at restaurants, this couple was denied their application to become foster and/or foster adopt parents because of their personal choice around diet.

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Mrs. Saunders, perspective foster mom said this:

".......By allowing them to eat meat at school and when they go to friends and if we went out to a restaurant, we don't mind paying for them to have meat. I really didn't understand that it was as big an issue as they were making it."

They are appealing the decision.

At first I didn’t really believe this was true. But then England can be eccentric. (I’m allowed to say that as I’m English as well as US and lived there for many years.) Then I found this link: Can Vegetarians Adopt Children? about a couple right here in the USA who had their foster children taken away because they fed them an organic vegetarian diet!

Wow. Now I’ve been a vegetarian on and off for many years. I never even considered it a big issue. My husband eats meat, our daughter eats meat. Although we don’t do it very often, we have taken foster kids to the Mc place to enjoy a hamburger and playground.

So anyone out there vegetarians? What is your take on this?

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Comment from: Storm [Member] Email
Well, it was my understanding that regardless of what your beliefs are, you MUST adhere to the culture of the child, at least while in state custody.
So, if I'm Christian and I adopt a Jewish child and the child holds to their Jewish tradition, then I must take them to their traditions services/gatherings.
I assume allowing a meat eater into a vegan (at least this sounds like a Vegan home with a no meat in the home rule)home would be going against what's in the interests of the child if the child is a meat eater and has no qualms about eating meat.
Proselytizing their beliefs, if you will.
I am a vegetarian, but not by "choice"...I'm allergic to the hormones in the meat, and the additive free stuff is just too pricy, but I would allow my children to eat meat if that's what they like, so I guess that's what the fuss is about.
Interesting and thought provoking post...love these type :)
Storm
PermalinkPermalink 03/29/06 @ 14:30
Comment from: sweetvegan [Member] Email
I was glad to read a follow-up to this news story, where the county said they would reconsider their refusal to allow the couple to adopt.

Serving vegetarian meals is not the same as forcing a different religion on a child. The foster children would presumably not have any religious *requirements* for meat. Their culture or religion would not be violated by being served a vegetarian meal. Most people already eat at least one vegetarian meal per day (breakfast), and many people eat cheese lasagne or pasta marinara without even realizing that they are eating a vegetarian meal. Choosing to eat meat is just a matter of personal preference, not religion.

I'm vegan, but the couple in the news story was vegetarian. Vegan means no animal products at all - not meat, fish, fowl, eggs, dairy or honey.
D
PermalinkPermalink 06/14/06 @ 00:21
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