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06/28/07

Love Thursday - Lessons learned on the farm

Posted by : Kelly in Foster Adoption Blog at 09:16 am , 534 words, 383 views  
Categories: Daily life, Parenting, Love Thursday, Attachment
holding a baby chick

We went over to watch Nancy’s pony ride yesterday. I think horses are beautiful and welcome a chance to see the majestic animals.

The place where the pony was being ridden also had several other animals including many chickens, geese, turkeys, ducks and some Shetland ponies. The chickens had many little chicks running around and they were cute as can be. I’m a sucker for baby animals of just about any kind, except snakes.

Hannah wanted to hold a baby chick, and we were finally able to capture one. She was very gentle with it, and really enjoyed it. During this brief time she learned a few things.

One of the baby chicks wasn’t feeling well and was looking for it’s mom. You have to understand how many mama chickens there were and that it would be a tough search. Hannah wanted to put the chick with any mom so that he would feel safe. Good thing she knows that moms keep you safe. We posed a question to her that went something like this:

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“Should we put him with just any mom or with his mom? If you were put with just any mom would you feel safe, or does your mom make you feel safe?”

Fortunately, she’s far enough along in her attachment that she said her mom would keep her safe. We put the chick near where the others were in the hopes of it finding it’s mom.

In another area, there was a duck sitting on a nest of eggs. If you got to close to the duck, it began to hiss. Yes, ducks do hiss. The mother duck was protecting her eggs, and we talked about mothers protecting babies.

We also got to watch a mama and baby horse romp around and play together. It was another neat thing to see that mamas and babies play, even in the animal kingdom.

Hannah also learned respect for things that are bigger than you. I’m not sure if this is going to carry over to adults, but she sure does respect horses. The horses in this stable were some mighty big animals.

Another lesson learned was being gentle with babies. She learned how to gently hold the baby chicks, stroke them, and love them, like what should have happened with her.

There was one horse that was absolutely beautiful, but he was not a very happy camper. I learned that when a horse’s ears are all the way back, they are angry. This boy must have had his ears stapled to his head. He was a beautiful creature on the outside, but with all that “anger”, I doubt he’s very beautiful on the inside, much like our kids sometimes.

Sometimes our kids will take in lessons like these in this kind of environment. It is less threatening and they can relate it to themselves without it being directly about them. Spend some time on a farm or near animals (if your child can handle that) and let them learn some of these lessons about themselves. It is an amazing thing to see.

Photo credit - Hannah holding one of the baby chicks

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Comment from: Julie [Member] Email · http://special-needs.adoptionblogs.com/
what's wrong with baby snakes? Or lizards, or spiders...LuLu wants to know!
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Comment from: NCOZADD@aol.com [Member] Email
That was my question.... what is so wrong with baby reptiles????

BTW, it was GREAT meeting you and your adorable peanut yesterday! Can't wait for the conference.
PermalinkPermalink 06/28/07 @ 10:52
Comment from: soblessed [Member] Email
In the summer, I usually do contract speech therapy work. Often, the contracts that are open by the time I'm out of school are for the "hard to fill" slots. Read: special needs and behaviorally/emotionally challenged. I really enjoy working with the behavioral issues (as long as there is a strictly maintained discipline code, a supportive administration and plenty of big burly aides, of course!).

Anyway, a lot of these kiddos are way behind in academics from being out of the classroom due to unacceptable behaviors. They also usually have an almost pathological avoidance of anything even remotely academic (control and all, ya know). So, alot of speech and language services take place outside, on frequent field trips, during games, whatever. It's amazing what a little life can teach kids! :)
PermalinkPermalink 06/28/07 @ 12:46
Comment from: Kelly [Member] Email · http://fost-adopt.adoptionblogs.com
Julie, it is a story that LuLu can relate to. I have no problem with spiders or lizards, in fact I can handle most any reptile except snakes.

When I was kid, I went to get the mail one day and my brothers had put dead snakes in the mail box. I didn't look before I reached in, and instead of the mail, I came out with a handful of dead snakes. They then chased me across the yard waving the dead little things in the air, chased me into the house, up the stairs and I hid in my room. They then tried to shove the little critters under my door.

It was an extremely traumatizing event that I remember years later. Can't get near the things that slither, not to mention that some of them are POISONOUS and can KILL you!! I don't want to get close enough to one to find out if it's friendly or deadly.
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