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06/01/07

Changes needed in the child welfare system

Posted by : Kelly in Foster Adoption Blog at 10:05 am , 578 words, 103 views  
Categories: Resources and Links, Issues in Foster-Adopt Care
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I was reading the May/June 2007 issue of Fostering Families Today magazine over breakfast this morning. Yes, I know I need a life.

I dog eared more pages than I normally do, but there is one section that really stuck out to me, and I’m sure it’s one you can relate to. It’s very simply titled “Thoughts on the Child Welfare System.” It asked several different people 3 key questions:

If there is on thing you could change about the current child welfare system, what would it be and why?

Identify one outstanding practice or element within the current child welfare system and why you think it’s outstanding.

What keeps you involved in the child welfare system and why?


These questions are easy and difficult all in one. The first question I could write a novel on. There are so many things wrong with the system as it is. I’ll stay off my soap box, and tell you what the contributors had to say.

First let me tell you about the contributors. There are a variety of backgrounds. We have a couple of child advocates, a couple of foster/adoptive parents, several foster parents, a family liaison, and a former foster child who is a current foster parent.

The answers to question number one were only slightly varied. There was compassion, confidentiality, and teaching relationships, and one answer of something that my husband and I have discussed at length, that all social workers should have to be a foster parent prior to actually working in the field, but the overwhelming majority of the answers focused on permanency. These people agreed that kids flounder in the system way too long waiting for their opportunity to be adopted.

The Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997 was enacted to cover various issues in foster care and adoption but one of the big ones was to cut down the amount of time that kids spent in foster care.

Here is the exact wording:

Under the new law, states must file a petition to terminate parental rights and concurrently, identify, recruit, process and approve a qualified adoptive family on behalf of any child, regardless of age, that has been in foster care for 15 out of the most recent 22 months. A child would be considered as having entered foster care on the earlier of either the date of the first judicial finding of abuse or neglect, or 60 days after the child is removed from the home.

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Sorry gang, this just isn’t happening. I’ve had 4 kids in my house and 2 of them took four years or more to have the parental rights terminated. Mackenzie never lived with either of her birth parents for a single day, and it still took four years for the TPR to happen. Kory was removed from his birthmother when he was about 3 years old, never returned home and still was not freed for adoption until he was almost 8.

In the same issue of the Fostering Families Today magazine was a short blurb about a recent study called “Adoption Dynamics and the Adoption and Safe Families Act”. The study “did not find any significant indication that the amount of time a child spent in foster care prior to be adopted decreased…”

I don’t have the answers, but I do know what we have now isn’t working, and obviously many people agree. Kids need and deserve permanency. Does anyone have the answers?

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Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
I can't think of anything more important that reforming the foster care system. It makes no sense that children should have to suffer that way.
I want to DO something about it or at least get the politicians, religious leaders and epople who disagree with them to work together and change things!
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Comment from: glisabeth [Member] Email
Re reforming foster care...The people working in social services would not have jobs if we eliminated or strengthened the system. It pays them to keep kids in foster care. Compliance with the The Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997 is a joke!
My husband and I STRUGGLED AND FOUGHT for over four years to adopt a 12-year-old girl from the foster care system. We dealt with Tennessee, Alabama and Louisiana. I don't know which was worse-- Tennessee or Alabama. Our family and friends couldn't believe someone wasn't beating down our door to get a child for us... (happily married 20 years, retired teacher,retired management consultant, very financially secure with references from people we have known for over 30 years, etc.) Of course we were told - and I LOVE THIS - "We don't find children for families; we find families for children". Duh...That's like saying I didn't marry my husband; he married me. The ONLY WAY to get children out of the foster care system and into permanent homes is to call, e-mail and write your Adoption Commissioner (Forget Page Whaley in Alabama; he won't do anything). However, Elka Graham, in the Governor's office in Alabama was very helpful. In Tennessee get in contact with Viola Miller, the Adoption Commissioner there. Don't let them give you the "run-a-round." Trust me, you will get NOWHERE by being passive. You HAVE GOT TO MAKE WAVES. If they don't return your calls or e-mails - go over their heads. Call newspapers or TV stations. I promised myself that when our daughter's (GOD, THAT IS WONDERFUL TO BE ABLE TO SAY THAT!) adoption was final I would do everything I could to help the children stuck in the System! I am beginning to try to do that now. IF YOU WANT TO HELP CHILDREN OUT OF THE HORRIBLE SYSTEM you are welcome to e-mail me at lisabethweber@gmail.com. Or if you have any questions about problems you are having trying to adopt you are also welcome to e-mail me. If my experience can help you (and help the children) I will be more than happy to respond to you. Good luck; hand in there if you're trying to adopt. Don't let the System win and the children lose!!!!
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